Monika

Hi. I like starting the day with pilates – stretching both body and mind before the coffee even finishes brewing. After that I usually reach for non-fiction, because I want to understand how the world actually works rather than just how it looks at first glance. In the evening I light a few soy candles, turn the lights down and simply stay present – mindfulness without apps or slogans. Next to me is the aquarium where the fish follow their own quiet rhythm, and that’s often enough. I’m not looking for someone to complete me. I’m looking for a man who has his own rituals, his own books and his own quiet moments, yet still wants to sit beside me and share whatever moved him lately. No big declarations, no rush. If you also prefer calm, real conversations over grand gestures, write to me. Tell me what you read last or what made you laugh – that’s a good place to start.