Lidia

Hey, I like it when someone defuses a moment with a dry joke before it gets awkward. In everyday life I sit at the sewing machine and make things I actually use afterward, because it gives a different kind of satisfaction than endless scrolling. Once a week I take the SUP board out on the water because my head clears there and I come back with fresh ideas. In the evening I reach for books or paint by numbers surrounded by the scent of soy candles I pour myself—that’s my reset ritual. I’m looking for a guy who doesn’t pretend he’s got everything under control and can laugh at his own mishaps, but also doesn’t bail when the conversation gets deeper. If you’ve got a joke up your sleeve that only works on the right person, send it over. The worst puns sometimes start the best chats.