Tamara

Hey, I’m loyal and I value closeness, but I also need my own space so I don’t lose myself in a relationship. In the evenings I often make soy candles or paint by numbers – that’s my way of practicing mindfulness and getting a bit of quiet after the day. I also collect minerals and crystals that end up on the windowsill and remind me of simple pleasures. I’m looking for a man who has his own life – work, friends, hobbies – and doesn’t want to erase it, just slowly let me in. Clear boundaries, plenty of tenderness and no control matter to me. If you feel like having a calm conversation about what we’re actually looking for instead of empty compliments, write to me. I’d love to read what moves you.