Sandra

Hi, I mostly listen first because I like to understand how someone thinks and what really makes them laugh. Once I feel safe, I speak honestly and directly. In my everyday life I enjoy evenings making soy candles – mixing scents, watching the wax melt, and then lighting them while reading. Once a week I go winter swimming because afterwards I feel light and clear-headed. I’m looking for a man who doesn’t rush or demand constant attention right away, but gives space and can still be warm and present. I like it when the silence between us feels natural, not forced. If you enjoy these quiet rhythms and feel like telling me what pulls you in after work, write to me – I’ll read and reply.