Ola

Hey, I like having a plan B and C ready, because then you can enjoy the day without everything having to go perfectly. I spend a lot of time in the garden – planting herbs and flowers and watching them grow, which gives me the sense that even small things need patience. In summer I grab the tent and go camping, cooking on a gas stove and sketching old stone buildings I pass along the way with a pencil. This mix of movement, quiet and creating leaves me coming home with a head full of ideas. I’m looking for a guy who has everyday life under control but doesn’t panic when the weather changes or the plan has to shift at the last minute. Someone who can crack jokes by a wet campfire and still ask what I’d rather do instead of pushing his own idea. I value someone who surprises me with a spontaneous trip but is just as happy to stay home when it rains. If you have your own backup plan for a bad day, write to me about it – I’ll gladly read it and maybe share mine.