Jolanta

I like having plan B and plan C ready because life loves to surprise you and I’d rather not lose my cool. In the morning I tend to my houseplants, checking which ones need more light, and on weekends I bake cakes so the whole place smells of butter and vanilla. After work I often put on music and move through intuitive dance or pole dance to feel my body and shake off tension. Sometimes I end the evening with bar-hopping or a board game with someone who can laugh at losing. I’m looking for a man who’s resourceful, keeps his humour in a crisis instead of panicking, and isn’t afraid to ask for my opinion. I like it when someone has an idea for the evening but can also change plans if things don’t work out. Together it’s really easier. Tell me what your backup plan for a bad day looks like – I’ll happily read it and maybe add something of my own.