Barbara

I like to-do lists and the satisfaction of crossing things off. A guy with initiative and a date checklist? Bonus. But lightness is required too—plan B when it rains, and knowing how to let go when life shuffles the cards. I’m looking for someone capable, with humor, and without stiffness. I can appreciate a well-planned evening and also a spontaneous ice-cream run at 9pm. If that’s your energy, let me know. Surprise me with an idea for a first meeting, or just write how your “perfectly sorted but not tense” day looks—happy to compare styles.